Destiny is about WHO you ARE

"Destiny is not about what you do. It's about WHO you are because everything you DO comes out of who you ARE." - Sandy Walker

You are NOT a loser!

This topic keeps coming to my attention - WHY do we reject ourselves? And what can we do about it? I realized the other day that when people are insecure it's because they have rejected themselves internally. They think, "I am a loser. I am not worthy to be loved. There's something really wrong with … Continue reading You are NOT a loser!

Are You Powerful or Powerless?

I've been reading a book by Danny Silk called Keep Your Love On. In it, he describes two kinds of people. Which one are you? Powerless People: I often say "I can't" or "I have to" when describing my daily life, as in "I have to go to work". I am often anxious because I … Continue reading Are You Powerful or Powerless?

Stop Rejecting Yourself!

Ok, let's be honest. We've all been rejected before - by friends, by family, by people we loved or admired. It happens. Guess what? It's not your fault. Yeah, really. I know that's a big pill to swallow, but honestly, in most cases people reject you because of their own issues. Not yours. Let me … Continue reading Stop Rejecting Yourself!

Overcome Your Biggest Obstacle – Yourself!

I was invited to be a guest blogger by Tara Husband over at Edgy Social Media. She asked me to write a post aimed at creative types - artists, entrepreneurs, musicians, etc. Here's the beginning of the article - click the link to read the rest. Enjoy! Overcome Your Biggest Obstacle – Yourself! Do you … Continue reading Overcome Your Biggest Obstacle – Yourself!

The Gardening Approach to Personal Transformation

“I can do it!” “I have what it takes.” “I am a good person.” “I am talented and creative.” Personal affirmations like the ones above are touted by most self-help gurus. They tell us to say these things to ourselves every day, emphasizing that you should look in the mirror when you say them. I’m … Continue reading The Gardening Approach to Personal Transformation

Finding Your Destiny – Part 2

Q: How will you know when you've found your destiny? Most people report a deep sense of internal rest, a sense of being at home in their skin, a lack of underlying striving or anxiety. People who are fulfilling their destiny say they have a sense of Purpose that accompanies their daily routine - they … Continue reading Finding Your Destiny – Part 2

Finding Your Destiny – Part 1

What are you passionate about? What stirs your heart? What do you lie awake at night thinking about? What do you daydream about when you are alone with your thoughts?  Is that your destiny? Many people refer to being “called” to do something – feed the poor, take care of the environment, work with the … Continue reading Finding Your Destiny – Part 1